Yeah yeah…This sounds obvious. But, who can really say himself or herself achieve that? Raise your hand, please? I waist 7 years on something I don’t like. When you stuck in something you don’t like but you need to accomplish, you spend more energy to overcome your resistant everyday. Who can tell me he or she doesn’t feel tired after one day work? I don’t now! It is because I love my job. Ok, back to resistant…When you are spending energy to overcome your resistant, you stuck yourself in a bad mood at the same time. Who can tell me he or she doesn’t have any negative feelings when fighting with the bad mood while trying to concentrate on working? It’s also proven in physics. It’s called counter-force by our great Newton. If you apply a force on something, it will give you the same amount of feedback. So, imagine, if you are pushing something away (resisting something with your mental force), the same amount force will be hit back at you. Horrifying, eh?
I know, it’s not easy to find what you like to do. We have to consider reality. I spend 7 years to get a degree in the field that I am not interested in. Those 7 years were B.A.D. I could easily get raged. It affected all my relationships including my 8-year-long relationship with a lovely man. Yeah, we broke up right 1 month before my defense. B.A.D. So, you say that you like to design but it won’t feed you up. Let’s back for a little bit. Do you think you like to design or do you really feel you like to design? The thing you should be after is that something you can do with a natural smile and more smoothly than sliding on the ice. When you can do it with heart, you must be good at it. Find that something! It’s your life to live!
